How Your Partner Can Help & Hinder Your Premature Ejaculation Treatment

While premature ejaculation can feel very isolating for the men dealing with it, the fact is, it’s not a condition men suffer through alone.  For every man who battles
premature ejaculation, there’s a partner struggling with it as well.  Women are, in many cases, left somewhat in the dark when their partner struggles with sexual performance issues since it’s not a topic most couples are open about.  But the truth is that your partner can have a huge impact on the progression of the condition and your chances for successful treatment against premature ejaculation.

How Does She Handle the Moment It Happens?

When a man ejaculates soon after sex begins, there’s no real way to hide it.  How a woman reacts when it happens can have an impact on her partner’s self-esteem and how the condition evolves.  A woman who makes a big deal of it and gets upset and angry ends up adding tension and pressure to the situation, driving up anxiety and stress levels which only add fuel to the fire.  While it’s natural for your partner to be disappointed, if she can remain calm and deal with the situation without losing her cool, her man knows she has his back and is willing to think outside the box in order to keep their sex life healthy.

Does She Do Homework Without You?

Once a woman realises her man is dealing with premature ejaculation, she will often do some research into the condition on her own.  This not only gives her a better understanding of what you are facing as a couple, it can also lead her to new ideas for treatments.  It can be hard for women to come forward and broach the topic with her partner, so be especially receptive to any cue she may give.  If she brings the topic up – even in the form of casual news – take an active interest and listen to what she has to say.  She may simply recite a lot of information and facts you already know, but remain an active listener.  This will show you’re receptive to her input and that will encourage her to continue coming to you.  Premature ejaculation isn’t an easy condition to deal with, and the more brains you have working on the problem, the better.

Is She Creative and Open Minded?

One of the most common treatments for premature ejaculation is ramping up your creativity in bed.  Whether it’s experimenting with new positions, trying out new foreplay techniques or using toys and props, having an open ad creative mind can do a world of good for your sex life.  Premature ejaculation is often cause – at least in part – to over-stimulation of the penis.  Changing things up can help mitigate the over stimulation and give men the breathing room they need to regain or maintain control.  If your partner is open to trying new things and able to bring new ideas to the table, you’ll both be better off.

Like any major problem, sexual performance issues are a challenge couples must face together if there’s any chance of overcoming them.  For men treating premature ejaculation, the role their partner plays is especially important.  She is able to bring new ideas in terms of treatment, support any efforts you make and be there to help you deal with the issue any time.  Opening up to her and being receptive to what she has to say not only helps you find better ways to manage the condition, it can also strengthen your relationship overall.  In that regard, grappling with premature ejaculation can easily become the way you take your relationship to the next level.