When most people hear the phrase ‘Tantric Sex’ they think of far eastern ideas, complicated techniques and a faint memory of hearing it was something Sting did with his wife. While it’s true that the act of Tantra is an eastern tradition, does involve some fairly advanced techniques and has received a fair amount of attention thanks to several articles about Sting and his wife, it’s also something that can help any man.
When Stamina is About More Than Just Preference
Most men want to last longer simply as a part of being good in bed. But, for some men, it’s about more than just wanting to boost stamina – it’s about having what most people would consider a normal sex life. For men dealing with chronic performance problems such as erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, sex can be over before it begins. The stress this puts on men, their partners and their personal relationships can be staggering.
Coping with and devising an effective treatment plan for premature ejaculation can be especially frustrating. While a number of products exist which can delay orgasm, many of them also have troubling side effects. Numbing creams can irritate the skin, cock rings can be uncomfortable and difficult to use at first and pharmaceutical treatments involve the use of off-label drugs, all of which carry a number of unpleasant side effects.
Naturally, men are quite eager to explore more natural options, especially at first. This is where some alternative therapies can step in to provide relief and help to begin dealing with the condition. Trantra sex offers a variety of techniques which can help men last longer and derive more satisfaction from their sex life.
Four Tantra Tips
Let Go of the Goal – When most people have sex, their thoughts are on the orgasm they’ll achieve. Tantric sex focuses instead on each single moment and the sensations connected to it. Spend your time on foreplay, teasing your partner and enjoying the feel of her skin beneath your hands. Take the time to be mindfully aware of each and every sensation.
Don’t Have Sex – Anyone who’s ever been in love knows the ‘thrill of the chase”, that thrilling sensation when pursuing someone – or being pursued by an admirer. Once people are in a stable relationship, much of this thrill seems lost forever. But Tantra practitioners extend that thrill by teasing and tempting one another without actually having sex. Feed each other, share a glass of wine or step into the shower together but don’t take things all the way and you’ll see just how powerful the act of denial can be.
Go Slow – One of the biggest hallmarks of Tantric sex is its reputation for duration. This is accomplished in a simple way – practitioners take their time. Go slowly, painfully slowly, in everything you do. From undressing your partner and caressing her skin onward, let everything take as much time as possible. It will not only help to build arousal slowly, it will force you and your partner to truly live in the moment.
Embrace Variety – Tantric sexual positions are the same as they are with any other type of sex. The truth is that its advanced positions can easily be found in the Kama Sutra and some more ambitious adult films. The key is that Tantric sex embraces variety without feeling the need to rush through it. It’s much easier to achieve even the most advanced position if you and your partner are willing to take things slowly.
These methods can help men dealing with premature ejaculation return some level of normalcy to their sex life. In some cases, these techniques can be a big part of a long-lasting treatment plan, but dealing with the underlying condition is still important when it comes to a cure. Sexual performance problems can be frustratingly difficult to treat successfully, but taking measures such as these can lessen the stress men feel as a result of these conditions and give them the breathing room they need to focus on treatment.
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