{"id":1842,"date":"2017-12-12T16:34:20","date_gmt":"2017-12-12T21:34:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.prematurex.com\/blog\/?p=1842"},"modified":"2018-11-19T15:07:45","modified_gmt":"2018-11-19T20:07:45","slug":"4-ways-eliminate-stress-premature-ejaculation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.prematurex.com\/blog\/4-ways-eliminate-stress-premature-ejaculation","title":{"rendered":"4 Ways to Eliminate the Stress of Premature Ejaculation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Stress is one of the major contributing factors to problems with premature ejaculation. Men find themselves caught in a vicious<!--more--> circle of sorts. On the one hand, they take the stress from their everyday lives to the bedroom, preventing them from performing to their usual standards. On the other hand, poor sexual performance brings along a whole new set of problems that put them under even more pressure. If you think no one else is as anxious about premature ejaculation as you are, you\u2019re wrong.<\/p>\n<p>All men who have ever experienced problems related to premature ejaculation are exposed to a lot of stress. It\u2019s particularly bad for slightly older males whose partners expect them to perform well during intercourse because of their perceived experience. Always being aware of your partner\u2019s expectations will take your mind out of the experience at hand and reduce your ability to control your impulses.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, sex isn\u2019t solely about your partner\u2019s enjoyment \u2013 it\u2019s about your enjoyment, too. If you spend too much time thinking only about whether your partner\u2019s satisfied with the experience, the stress of premature ejaculation will inevitably kick in and you\u2019ll be in for a very unpleasant run.<\/p>\n<p>But if your problems with premature ejaculation stem from the stress you\u2019re under, there are ways to fight this. You need to do what you can to reduce the stress that comes from \u2013 and further worsens \u2013 all your premature ejaculation issues. Here\u2019s a list of the four things you should do to battle the anxiety and restore your ability to perform up to standard between the sheets.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Have a Heart-to-Heart with Your Partner Beforehand<\/strong><br \/>\nNo matter what situation you find yourself in, honesty is the best policy. If you have a history of dealing with the stress of premature ejaculation, it\u2019s only fair to warn your partner about it before you engage in a sexual relationship. What\u2019s more, it will also help you relieve some stress beforehand knowing that your partner will understand if you\u2019re unable to delay ejaculation despite your best efforts. This also lets both of you help each other last longer and enjoy the experience as much as possible.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Skip the Foreplay If You Must<\/strong><br \/>\nAlthough usually an integral part of any sexual experience, foreplay affects men differently. For some of them, it\u2019s a way to release the tension before moving on to the act itself, so they tend to extend it until they feel ready to proceed. However, many men find that foreplay only increases their anxiety levels and makes them finish even sooner because of all the built-up excitement. If you\u2019re one of them, you should talk to your partner and agree to skip foreplay to see if it helps.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Don\u2019t Just Use Your Penis<\/strong><br \/>\nIt\u2019s always good to remind yourself that sex is much more than simply a penis penetrating a vagina. Your hands can also do a lot to stimulate your partner and make sure she has a fantastic experience. There\u2019s no need to limit this just to foreplay: you can do it during the intercourse, too. Anytime you feel you\u2019re nearing release and want to postpone it, just gently remove your member and start gently pleasing her using your hands. As soon as you\u2019re good to go again, just make a smooth change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Don\u2019t Give Up After One Try<\/strong><br \/>\nEven though we sometimes fail to achieve our goals, we usually get a second chance in life. Your sex life is no different. With that in mind, you should always plan for two attempts at performing to both your partner\u2019s and your own standard. Think of the first try as just that \u2013 a try. If you manage to succeed, that\u2019s great. If not, there\u2019s no need to stress about it. Just wait a bit and then have another go. You\u2019ll be more relaxed and won\u2019t feel the need to focus on unimportant things. If it works, you\u2019ll also get a much-needed confidence boost, which will help you to battle the stress of premature ejaculation a lot more efficiently.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stress is one of the major contributing factors to problems with premature ejaculation. 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