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How to Turn Early Ejaculation into Better Sexual Performance

Better Sexual Performance

When guys think of ways to boost their sexual performance, they don’t often think of early ejaculation. But the truth is that men who have to deal with chronic early ejaculation often end up as better lovers than those who rarely deal with the issue. It seems counter-intuitive at first, but the truth is this common condition is often the catalyst for positive change some men need.

Early ejaculation is a common issue and one that pretty much every guy on the planet has had to deal with at least once. It can happen as the result of stress, anxiety and even excitement. Plenty of men report ejaculating too early when they land the girl of their dreams or when they set out expecting to perform well. Common examples are a man’s wedding night, anniversaries and romantic getaways. When the pressure is on, the performance can be off.

Dealing with early ejaculation once in a while is bad enough, but men who know they are vulnerable to chronic episodes quickly find they need to be proactive. That means taking positive healthy steps such as maintaining a healthy diet, engaging in regular physical activity and monitoring their sexual performance for any signs of trouble.

It also means developing new sexual techniques so they can handle problems as they arise. This sometimes means mastering new positions that lessen direct stimulation while still pleasing their partner. Oral sex is, of course, another popular alternative. Expanding your repertoire of sexual tricks, so to speak, becomes one of the best ways for men to deal with the issue without sacrificing their sex life.

Of course, this isn’t an easy lesson for men to learn and it can be something guys struggle with for months or even years. Finding ways to directly treat early ejaculation is always a man’s biggest focus, but he also need to be able to deal with the problem when it arrives. That means being a better lover in general – one that understands pleasing your partner sometimes has to take precedent even over your own satisfaction.

Dealing with early ejaculation

Dealing with an issue like early ejaculation over a long period of time changes the way a man sees his overall health, his sex life and how he performs for partners. In terms of his own health, chronic sexual dysfunction is often a warning sign of something more serious. By taking a more active interest in an issue that affect his sex life, a man is also able to improve his overall health even beyond the original problem. A man who successfully manages early ejaculation, for example, is also more likely to have the skills need to naturally manage high blood pressure, depression and other conditions commonly associated with the common triggers of early ejaculation. Stress and anxiety have proven to be extremely detrimental to a person’s health. They are also usually the triggers for early ejaculation.

In addition to motivating men to learn some new tricks, dealing with early ejaculation also forces men to step outside their comfort zone in terms of communication. Simply put, early ejaculation isn’t an issue men can hide from their partner, so couples must come together to openly discuss their sex lives. Although awkward at first, this open approach to communication is a huge step forward in creating and maintaining a healthy and intimate relationship.

Taking an active role in sexual performance and health means men also take a more active role in their overall health and their level of sexual performance. Learning new positions, new moves and entirely new techniques not only gives men something to fall back on should the condition come on suddenly, it also makes them a better-rounded person and lover in general. In a weird way, being forced to deal with this kind of challenge head on can end up being a positive influence in a man’s sex life.