Relationships

5 Ways Early Orgasm Can Damage Your Relationship

Early ejaculation can damage your relationship

If you ask any male about early orgasm, they will likely get defensive. This is a problem no male wants to talk about, even those who never or rarely experience

the phenomenon themselves. The truth is that early orgasm can do a lot more damage than negatively affect one’s sex life. It can also cause emotional distress, and even depression. When someone thinks that their “worthiness” is directly linked to their sexual prowess, a problem like early orgasm can seriously affect them and their relationship.

It Makes Communication Harder

CommunicationMen rarely bring up the topic of early orgasm because it is an awkward subject, especially if they are directly involved. If that is the case, they usually feel bad about it but they also think that talking about it can only make things worse. We all know, of course, that it actually does the opposite, but for that to happen, we have to get over the awkward part. The truth is that early orgasm is not something anyone can hide. If you suffer from it, your girlfriend or wife already knows it, and chances are they want to discuss it with you but don’t know how to go about it. You might as well help them out and bring up the subject on your own. Talking about the problem is better for everyone and you may be able to find a solution quicker.

It Can Make You Feel Alone

Feeling AloneAny kind of sexual problem can make you feel alone. Sex is one of the most popular topics in most adult and adolescent social circles but people tend to leave the awkward or negative experiences to themselves, and they – especially men – don’t like to talk about their sexual problems. If a man tries to open up about his early orgasm to his male friends, he ends up being the butt of a joke. This can feel isolating, and once you feel you are alone, it becomes tougher to deal with the problem. This is where joining an online group or forum can help. Here people with the same problem share their experiences and ideas while realizing that they are not alone. They understand exactly what others go through and can empathize with them.

It Can Ruin Your Professional Life

When you are frustrated both mentally and sexually, you cannot put enough energy into your work. Early orgasm often turns into mental distress or even depression which can radically influence your work performance. Many men find it difficult to concentrate when dealing with sexual performance issues, and when these issues linger around, they can turn into something more serious.

Reduced Confidence

Whether it is right or not, most men think that their “worthiness” directly correlates with their sexual performance. When they are satisfied with their sex life and their partner shares these sentiments they have more confidence, more energy, and everything feels easier. Conversely, when there is something wrong with their sexual life, especially if that something is a performance issue, they can lose their confidence quickly and bring their own self-worth into question. This is a very unhealthy habit, and it always makes the problem worse but sometimes, you just can’t help it but to feel that way. The solution starts with sharing. If you can open up and share your problem with your partner, from that point on, you don’t have to carry that burden alone and you can start concentrate on a solution.

Lessened Focus

When your mind is constantly somewhere else you lose the ability to focus. This affects everything in your life from your relationship to your work and sometimes even your health, both mental and physical. If you are not willing to discuss the problem, it hangs over your head negatively influencing your whole life. When that happens, and you can trace all of your problems back to a single source, there is only one solution. You have to deal with that problem, and when that problem is early orgasm, it all starts with you opening up about it. Find the person who can be there for you and let them carry a little bit of that weight. Once you opened up about it, you addressed the problem, the solution could be around the corner.